Ten Things I Need For Career Bliss

I’ve been giving a lot of thought recently about happiness as it relates to my career. For my own benefit I’ve listed out the things that would make me totally, 100% satisfied with my working life. I’ve put 2′s next to the ones I think I’m currently achieving, 1′s next to the ones I’m kind of doing and 0′s next to the ones I need to fix.

I need to:

  1. Be totally passionate and in love with what I’m doing (1)
  2. Create products that people really want to use (0)
  3. Work with people who I like and who I’d hang out with even if we weren’t working (2)
  4. Do work that challenges both the creative and technical sides of my brain (2)
  5. Not sit at a desk all day (1)
  6. Feel that I’m contributing in a meaningful way in the strategic direction of a company/product (2)
  7. Feel like I’m getting better at stuff I used to suck at (1)
  8. Be challenged on a daily basis (1)
  9. Have enough time to hang out with my family, friends and dog and enjoy my two hobbies (playin hoops and drinking) (2)
  10. Make enough money to support a modest lifestyle and vacation internationally once in a while (0)

All-in-all my current work situation ain’t that bad, though there are a few obvious things I need to fix.   Sorry for the self-centered post but this helped me, maybe it’ll help someone out there.  What do you need to be career-happy?

The Return

I did a ton of reading and drinking banana shakes in Thailand. I also had a funny haircut.


After leaving India
and spending an insanely awesome month decompressing on the beaches of Thailand, I’m officially back in New York. The first thing I noticed is that in the two years I was gone, things didn’t really change that much.  My family and friends are all still goin’ strong, the same guys are still playin’ ball in the park and the old bars and restaurants I liked are all still crazy expensive.  Everyone keeps asking me how India was (“incredible”) and what it’s like being back (“exciting”).  Going abroad was one of the better decisions I’ve ever made and now I’ve got a lot of awesome stories to tell at parties (Have I told you about that time I met the Dalai Lama?)

Inevitably people ask me what I’m gonna’ do with my life. I tell the truth, that I’m going to be a scuba diving instructor in Thailand, but until that happens I’m co-founding a web start-up. At first I wasn’t sure if we were “ready” to start a company, but it looks like there’s only one way to find out. We’ve got a concept that everyone seems to love (no it’s not one of these) and a very talented two and a half person team. I’m spending a few hours each day trying to hack together a Rails prototype and the rest of my time meeting with really amazing people to review our mock-ups and product strategy. Although I have a lot of questions and have no idea where this is going to end up, working for myself is awesome.  I wake up everyday with new ideas and a hunger for work (and bagels).

Although my blog will be a lot less Indiany, I’ll try to keep writing about what it’s like starting a company and finally being an adult… as soon as I find a place to live and move off my brother’s couch.

Journey to the Himalayas (Agra, Manali, Lahul Valley, Dharamsala)

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Each summer my buddies from college all get together and spend a few days being debaucherous. We unanimously agree on a host and it’s up to them to ensure a good time. Previous trips included such exotic locations as, the Jersey shore, Cape Cod, Vegas, a trailer park in Mexico and Lake of the Ozarks. This year was our sixth “sunbelly” and I was el presidente.  I told everyone a year ahead of time that it’s going to be in India and even though we knew the cost and time involved would force a few people to drop out, peeps were pumped.

Sure it would’ve been easy and par for the course to get everyone to party on the beaches of Goa, but I was hoping for something a little different.  After discussing a few different options (Kerala or Andaman Islands) we settled in on the Himalayas.  The original itinerary (setup by our amazingly fantastic and highly recommended travel agent) involved us taking a driving from Manali to Leh/Ladakh (Kashmir).  Unfortunately the day my friends arrived to Mumbai, a freak cloudburst and ensuing floods devastated the region including burying villages, knocking out the airport and  blocking all roads in and out of the region.

After some last minute scrambling we settled on an Agra, Manali, Lahul Valley and Dharamsala trip.

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We flew to Delhi in the morning and drove down to Agra to see the Taj Mahal.  I received some bad intel pegging the drive at 3 hours (in reality it was more like 5 and a half).  Aside from my friends shock and awe by the sights, sounds and smells of India (and monkeys attacking our car), it was a pretty uneventful drive.

The Taj Mahal lives up the to hype:

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Us at the Taj Mahal

Manali

Early the next morning we hopped on a flight to Kullu and drove to Manali. The flight in was my first real experience in the mountains and absolutely mind blowing.  We hung out for a day or two in the old city which is dominated by Israeli backpackers (for better or worse).  It was nice, but a little too “heady” for my taste.

Manali really gives you the feeling of “being in the clouds:”

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We visited Naggar castle which back in the day was sold to the British for a gun and had crazy intricate woodwork:

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We also went to the home and studio of a Russian artist (and true culture warrior) who settled in the region  in 1917:

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Rohtang Pass

The next morning we hopped into some jeeps and made the journey across the Rohtang Pass into Lahul Valley.  Rohtang sits at 14k feet and is literally translated to “pile of corpses”.  It was easily the most intense drive of my life.  Recent mudslides, hairpin turns and high altitudes took it’s toll on the roads (and our group).

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Rohtang3Rule #7 of driving in the himalayas: If a man starts cooking and selling corn on the side of the road, you have at least 45 till you get moving again:

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I’d received a lot of warnings from friends to make it over the pass quickly.  ”Don’t spend too long out out on the pass or you’ll be crawling back to the car.”  Despite the consequences we were determined to play the highest altitude game of wiffle ball ever:

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In retrospect this turned out to be a bad idea.  Death notes to loved ones were written and a few of us couldn’t breathe from altitude sickness:

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On the other side of the pass the clouds cleared up, people started feeling better and we got our first real views of the himalayas.  Spectacular:

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Lahul Valley

By nightfall we reached our stone cottage near Jispa.  The people managing the place cooked us dinner, lit a bonfire and provided us some local “nectar of the gods.” This turned out to be the best place we stayed on the trip.  No cell service, no internet, just natural beauty and contemplation.

If you ever find yourself near Jispa, I’d highly recommend Gemur Khar Cottage, Jispa (contact Ramesh Thakur 09418388352).

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The next day we hung out in Lahul Valley visiting two villages: Triloknath and Udaipur. Triloknath was on a sheer cliff and had a very authentic monastery. Although definitely Buddhist, there was a lot of Hindu influence:

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Triloknath2 The views were consistently spectacular throughout the drive:

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After two and a half blissful days in Lahul we once again went over the Rohtang pass on our way to Dharamsala.  The drive back was a lot easier (no wiffle ball, we’d adjusted to the altitude and we knew what to expect).  We also saw a bunch of tourists riding over Rohtang on motorcycles and bicycles, not to mention local grandmas doing it on foot.  We were really embarrassed that we could barely do it in a high end SUV.

To break up the drive, we stopped at an off-season The Shining-esque ski resort in Solang Valley.

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Dharamsala / McLeod Ganj

The drive to Dharamsala was scary and epic in it’s own way.  We kept expecting to see velociraptors hopping down the mountains:

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Instead we saw bears, monkeys, sheep and cows in funny places:

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We stayed in Mcleod Ganj for 3 days and checked out the local sights.  The obvious highlight was the temple of the Dalai Lama:

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On our second night my buddy Ben had a dream that we all met the Dalai Lama.  The following evening an old Tibetan woman gave us a tip that “his Holiness” was in fact in town and leading morning prayers the next morning.  We showed up early and the place was a madhouse.  #14 rolled in with a crazy entourage including a bunch of monks, dudes in suits, personal bodyguards and the Indian Army.  After a 2 hour morning prayer he walked around the crowd, smiling and dispensing snippets of wisdom.  He really radiates,  you can tell dude is enlightened.

Our last night was pretty relaxed.  We played a bunch of chess:

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and the game the Nazis play in Inglorious Bastards (“well then I must be King Kong”). Although I hate Nazis, this is a pretty awesome game:

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I also caught a pretty awesome sequence of the clouds coming in over the city:

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All in all the trip was spectacular.  Although we didn’t make it to Leh/Ladakh, I’m sure I’ll make it back (much more prepared) to do it all again.

Jiddyjiddy zarzar.

bahut hi jaldi / too soon

ive been meaning to write another one of these for a while, due to the raging success of my last poem. special thank you to my editors/roomates manoj and general briggs.

bahut hi jaldi

woh baag mein beti thi
jawab ki inthezar mein
“mere bina mat jao”

woh thokar khaya
dheere se hasaa
“mujhe dosh na do”

usne fal kha li thi
woh chai pee liya tha
khoobsurat… andha… krodh

translation:

too soon

she was siting in the garden
waiting for an answer
“dont go without me”

he stumbles
laughing softly
“do not blame me”

she ate the fruit
he drank the tea
beautiful… blind… anger

CodeChef launched!

For the last 2 months or so I’ve been working on setting up an India specific, online coding coding contest: www.codechef.com. The goal of the site is to identify top technical talent, promote our brand and foster technical competition. It’s a cool project for me ’cause I get to use my existing web project management skills, as well as manage the marketing side (which I’ve never done before). I’ve taken a real interest in social media marketing and am pretty pumped to test out some ideas I’ve had. We will be building a Facebook app, integrating with Facebook Connect, running Twitter contests and doing some other new media-ey stuff.

Last week we soft-launched at a big student festival at the top engineering school in Mumbai IIT’s TechFest.  We setup a booth and asked students the output to three code snippits, if they could answer and explain, we gave out some t-shirts.  It turns out people will do anythig for free stuff.  The booth was packed the entire time. It was a really great experience, interacting with students, talkin’ up CodeChef and walking around wearing a giant chefs hat. The feedback was overwhelmingly positive and I’m looking forward to seeing how big we can make this.

Some random pics from techfest below (look for the cool chef’s hat)…



Only in India…

I just returned for 2 trips, first to Goa for New Years, then to Israel for my cousins wedding. The trips were complete opposites though I enjoyed them both very much, Goa was one long party, and Israel was (mostly) wholesome QT with the fam.

Goan highlights included:

hammerheads for sale:

cows on the beach:

and awesome parties:

This morning I arrived back in India, decided to take a prepaid taxi to my apartment (not sure if this is cheaper or more expensive then using the meter). The guy told me the price was 250 rs, then charged me 240 and handed me a receipt for 220.  What I got a real kick out of though, was the second bullet point on the receipt:

In case of breakdown on the way driver will arrange another taxi for onward journey and pay part fare to next driver”

Only in India…

A Poem

Yesterday I had my 3rd Hindi lesson.  Combining everything I know I’ve written a poem:

Chidya udthi hei

Nadi beti hei

Ek aurat gati hei…


Unke daanth safedh hein

Unke paanv lambhe hai

Mere dil ko chot lagi hai…

Translation:

The sparrow flies

The river flows

One woman sings…


She has white teeth

Her legs are long

I have hurt my heart…

I also like saying mera nashta guhrum hai, but I couldn’t fit “my breakfast is hot” anywhere in the poem above.  Next week I’m learning about food, which I’m sure will really get the creative juices flowing.